Any relationship requires time, commitment, and understanding between individuals. Sometimes that is easier said than done though, even for Amachi’s mentors and mentees. Fortunately, there are various publications and materials available for guidance.
The National Mentoring Partnership has created a “Learn to E-Mentor Workbook,” which includes useful information about the first meeting, the many roles of a mentor, activity lists, and relationship “check up” and problem solving worksheets. This interactive workbook allows the mentor and mentee to clarify expectations of the mentoring experience in order to lay the foundation for a solid relationship. It also provides an opportunity for reflection on the relationship so that problems can be solved and positive interactions can be repeated.
In addition, the Youth Mentoring Connection provides an interactive Mentor Tips Quiz so mentors can reflect on difficult issues that may arise, like a suspension from school, suicidal language, or even a serious national topic, like 9/11. It offers a variety of possible mentor responses, along with explanations for the best route for handling the situation.
Lastly, The Mentoring Partnership of Southwestern Pennsylvania uses their “Tips for Building a Mentoring Relationship” to train their mentors. Our own tips echo some ideas stated in their material, however, some different concepts are also pointed out.